People May Hate Your Opinions

by Josue Habana on December 22nd, 2009
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A fact of life – we don’t all agree on everything all the time. So what? It makes life interesting, if you ask me.

Some choose to keep their opinions to themselves, and that’s fine. For some, the hassle associated with opening your mouth just isn’t worth it. Others, like bloggers, choose to put their own opinions out into the public domain. Whichever option you choose, I personally don’t believe either is right or wrong. What I do believe, however, is that when you put your opinions out into the public domain, effectively making them everybody’s business, you then have a responsibility to accept feedback, both positive and negative. If you expect people to read your opinions, you have to at least have the courtesy of allowing everybody else their opinion on the same topic. This is part of the reason that blogs with open comments work so well. Anyone can have their say. Anyone can freely criticise the blogger or applaud the blogger.

My biggest blog gripe is closed comments (much like they used to do if they were announcing a problem on the Second Life blog, or a policy change that might piss people off). My next biggest gripe is overly policed comments. The only comments I erase here are spam. I don’t think that the offer of ‘cheap penis enlargement’ is particularly relevant. I don’t pre-moderate. I don’t manually approve every comment before it’s posted. Why? Because if I have something to say and you lot are prepared to hear me out, then I, in the very least, owe you the courtesy of having your say, in your words, in your time without moderating what goes on here for the benefit of championing my own cause and beliefs.

/end rant.


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  • Verne Miles

    Hi Josue,

    It’s interesting that you made a ranted opinion, on the subject of giving opinions.

    I’m glad that there is freedom of thought.

    A kind of additional and complimentary piece to your rant would be that people also have the right NOT to hear opinion. If you’re reading something, like your blog for example, and wish to weigh in to a fair blogger who will hear feedback that’s fine. And if you really dont’ like what you see close it.

    What I’m talking about is the people who, in RL or SL (though blessedly we have mute in SL) choose to tell you just what they think of you or what you do, under the banner of “It’s just my opinion and I’m entitled to it”. It’s a broad phrase that people think gives them the right to say what they want to anyone, so my addition to this would be:

    Someone should have their opinion, but also recognise and respect when it’s not wanted.

    Keep up the good work Josue :)

  • Are you taking heat from the prim baby protection people?

  • Thanks, Verne.

    The prim baby protection unit want me dead, Adric…. I had a visitor last night. He turned up at my door step covered head to toe in a black cloak. Then this morning, I woke up next to a horse’s prim baby’s head and a note saying, “See you in Hell, bitch.”

  • It is true…policed comments, closed comments are a cowards act.

    I do police my comments for “adult content” or spam…I want to be family friendly, but if you can’t handle criticism than you should not be writing.

    Thanks for stopping by my blog by the way :)

  • I [deleted] [deleted] when you make comments that are [deleted] you lose some of the thrill of being a [deleted] wiseass blogger.

    While my blogs aren’t aimed at pissing anyone off like some [deleted] male bloggers (yes that was a [deleted] sexist comment) I enjoy the banter of well thought out, wry and frankly [deleted] real feedback to any blog.

    Although image managers will tell you that [deleted] everything in media is edited to a degree.

    /me adds more profane keywords to her poetry blog…and hides her pixel pregnancy with a well placed feather boa… :)

  • I do have to ask what sort of freaks you guys are attracting.

    I find that witting in a kind, respectful, non-profane, constructive style that highlights the positive aspect of your topic and downplays the negative cultivates users (and thus comments) that are nothing but honey and milk.

    To say I am loved is an understatement. Perhaps people might feel this way about Jesus, but he no doubt declines all the sex and drug offers, so I am bigger.

  • … wait can I edit that out?

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